Eloping in New York City is iconic for a reason. It’s fast-paced, romantic, cinematic, and you can make it what you want. But before you book your flights and reserve a dinner table, there are a few things every couple should know. Even if you live in the city, it helps to have a photographer’s perspective.
As a New York City wedding photographer and New York City elopement photographer, here are the tips…
New York City has five Marriage Bureau locations: Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, Staten Island, and the Bronx.
Manhattan is the most popular and good reason. It’s iconic and mostly the ones we all see in photos It’s central, surrounded by landmarks, and if you’re visiting, chances are you’re already staying there. Couples traveling for a getaway, typically don’t vacation in Brooklyn or the Bronx. Even for locals, getting married in Manhattan can feel like a mini getaway. If you want to have a getaway at The Beekman Hotel, you should 100% invite me to photograph your elopement.
But Brooklyn City Hall is a hidden gem. It’s in Brooklyn Heights, it’s quieter and has more of a neighborhood feel. You’re close to the waterfront, cobblestone streets, restaurants, and skyline views. It’s a completely different vibe from big city Manhattan and honestly, it’s beautiful.
Just like anywhere else, you need a marriage license before your New York City elopement.
You can apply in person or virtually through Project Cupid. Both partners must be present for the appointment. After approval, there is a mandatory 24 hour waiting period before your ceremony can legally happen.
This means you can’t walk into City Hall and get married the same day you receive your license. Whether you’re local or flying in, you’ll need to plan around that 24 hour window.
My advice as a New York City elopement photographer? Schedule your license appointment at least a day or two before your ceremony so it’s less stressful and you didn’t book your time slot for nothing.
Time slots open three weeks in advance and Fridays fill up fast.
If you want a Friday ceremony so you can celebrate all weekend (which most couples do), set reminders and book. Appointments can start as early as 8:30am.
From a photographer’s perspective, earlier is always better. Morning ceremonies mean fewer crowds outside. Which I always welcome. There’s less waiting inside and less people filling up space in your photos. It’s just a calmer energy all around and you’ll happy picking earlier over midday.
I feel like the same applies all over the city. If we’re planning portraits at Central Park, Prospect Park, China town or any street in Manhattan for that matter, early morning will always give you the best experience.
New York City requires one witness. No pets. Nobody under 18, but I sure can!
If you’re keeping things intimate and not inviting guests, your wedding photographer can absolutely sign as your witness. It keeps the moment private and pressure free. Sometimes bringing someone with you other than your photographer that hasn’t created a timeline can leave you feeling like you want the moment to be more intimate.
The actual ceremony lasts only a few minutes. There are no personal vows and no extended time to soak it in. Which is why I always tell couples that City Hall is just the legal part. The magic happens after.
We can read personal vows somewhere more beautiful or meaningful. Take portraits at The Bowery, in Greenwich Village, the architecture, Brooklyn Bridge Park, Tribeca, Cobblestones in DUMBO. Make it a date, pop some champagne and celebrate with dinner at your favorite restaurant. Your New York City elopement doesn’t have to feel rushed just because the ceremony is.
A marriage license in NYC costs $35, and a City Hall ceremony is $25. Beyond that, costs vary depending on photography, attire, dining, and any permits for certain locations. Sometimes if you’re staying at certain locations, they’ll waive the permit fee. While New York City isn’t “cheap,” an elopement here can still be significantly more affordable than a traditional wedding and give you a one of a kind experience.
Totally. Many couples obtain their marriage license first and then hire a licensed officiant for their ceremony in a meaningful location — like Central Park, apartments, Prospect Park, Brooklyn Bridge Park or a rooftop. This allows your own vows for the ceremony itself and a more intimate experience. Keep in mind though that this is NYC and people will always be around.
Technically nobody NEEDS a photographer, but if you ask me, YES. City Hall ceremonies are fast and you won’t get a second chance at those moments. Hiring a photographer ensures your day feels intentional, documented beautifully, and guided by someone that knows how to navigate the city and the timing it takes.
I LOVE creating date experiences for my couples. Time to elope in NYC!
