Tommy & Jessica’s Tea Ceremony | A Traditional Tea Ceremony | NYC Wedding Photographer
Wedding traditions are beautiful because they connect generations, and Tommy and Jessica’s New York City tea ceremony was exactly that. While I love couples doing their own thing, tea ceremonies, sangeet, hand fasting, triple blessings and crownings in orthodox cultures. I love the tradition of them all and how it allows family to be a greater part of the day and honor culture.
It rained all day, but they held their tea ceremony at House of Joy in Chinatown. It brought together family, friends, incredible food, and meaningful traditions that honored their families’ histories.
One of the most meaningful parts of the day was Jessica wanting to include her grandmother in the tea ceremony. For any couple planning a tea ceremony, honoring parents and grandparents is one of the most important aspects of the celebration. Watching Jessica serve tea to her grandmother was a reminder that weddings are about so much more than a single day. It’s about honoring family and the people that really shape who you are today.
Adding even more sentimental significance, Jessica wore her mother’s tea ceremony dress. Knowing it was passed from one generation to the next is so beautiful to see. The celebration was filled with energy as lion dancers made their way through House of Joy. It brought excitement and a story all in it’s own before dinner was served.
Although the weather kept us from spending much time outdoors, we still stepped into Chinatown for a few quick portraits in the rain. The streets, busy as always. The iconic neighborhood, left nothing to be desired.
Having previously photographed Tommy and Jessica in Chinatown during the fall, it felt especially meaningful to return to the neighborhood for such an important milestone in their story together. You can view their Chinatown engagement session here: Tommy & Jess Chinatown Session
I love these two. I think they are the king and queen of Chinatown and you can’t convince me otherwise. Look at this gorgeous couple!
VENUE: House Of Joy MAKEUP: Effortless beauty by Maggie LION DANCERS: Chinese Free Masons JEWELRY: Verstolo
What is a tea ceremony?
A tea ceremony is a traditional celebration where couples serve tea to parents, grandparents, and elders as a sign of respect and gratitude. Family members often offer blessings, advice, and gifts in return.
When does a New York City tea ceremony usually take place?
Many couples choose to hold their tea ceremony on the morning of their wedding day, while others host it during a separate celebration with family before the wedding.
How long does a tea ceremony last?
Most tea ceremonies last between 30 minutes and 2 hours, depending on the number of family members participating and whether additional traditions or performances are included. That is just the tea ceremony part and doesn’t include performances or many courses of food to celebrate.
Where can you have a New York City tea ceremony?
Many couples host their tea ceremony at family homes, banquet halls, restaurants, or wedding venues throughout New York City. Chinatown restaurants are a popular option because they can accommodate large family gatherings and traditional celebrations.
Should you hire a photographer for your tea ceremony?
Absolutely. Tea ceremonies often include some of the most emotional moments of the wedding experience, including interactions with parents, grandparents, and multiple generations of family. Having these moments documented allows couples to preserve an important part of their family history.
